News headlines for the last week read I got schmoozed. No, that's not a African/Japanese/Bihari/Tollywood/Mayawati-christened/RSS-approved/Himesh-sung version of "smooch" (I'm wayy too hapless for even those corrupted incarnations). Apparently, this schmooze thing is about how well you traverse blogosphere and move, as Dreamcatcher who gave me this award puts, in sheets of conversations with other blogs. They move around blogosphere making friends, are not just limited to highly frequented blogs but they also keep there arms open to new ones and engage in meaningful conversation so they bug you more after saying hello …
Now I don't know who gave that definition, but it's interesting enough for me to pass the baton. Mr. Dreamcatcher himself is one of those, undoubtedly, but if I have to pick five more (which is very difficult, my list is TOO long)
(in alphabetical order)
Akshay... Cute, innocent, energetic. Writes well, charms better. Always hunting for blogs and bloggers, to read. His two cents are always the brighter perspective, even when he doesn't understand anything! :P
Arpana Crazy crazy crazy girl. Blabbers, cries, sings, does everything, and instantly make u like her...even her silliness. Very loving and a wonderous friend.
Keshi Vivacious, veteran, energetic girl totally in love with blogging and her blog-family :)
VibhavKnow him through blogs primarily, though we pass by too often in college not to talk. Still, his opinions, his warmth in this world, his invaluable observations and brilliant poetry make him a not-so-anonymous wonder :)
Vikram From poetry to frustaps, from life to death, from philosophy to humour, from encouraging comments to questioning ones, he has everything :)
There're at least a few more I must acknowledge...pRicky, Tapasya, Chitra, Jasmine, DC, Faith, Ady, Prude....
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Among other events, some of the questions raised in this post by me have invited responses even more thought provoking at times, and while I still reserve my own take, if any, on them, the one thing that gave me a strange pleasure to know was the question I thought was the trickiest for me also turned out to be the least answerable, for it concerned defining honesty, and judging people on that most important parameter. Invariably, all acceptable answers ran into the domain of intent, of "justified" lies, of morality...in short subjectivity. And thus intent remains for me the most important, most crucial concept and parameter, yet inaccurately known by its very nature. I've believed in concepts like...I don't care about whether you did it or not, I care about whether you wanted to/meant to.
And gladly, after all the thought, I still do. :)
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Request: One of my alter-egos, Madam as she is known for her strict bossy dictums and whims, has prevailed on me to command everyone to smile. So, for the sake of my job and health, please please please smile. :)
17 comments:
:) :) :)
i am obeying Madam..i hope she is happy
Exactly how many alter-egos do you have!
n i smile
:-)
hello fellow blogger!
Dissociative disorder I see...
I frown!!! (hazards of having done psychology... it is more fascinating than smiley you having this caharacterstic)
And I would take this oppurtune Oppurtunity to say Madam Pheonix, Its been wonderful reading all that you've written.
Many Many cheery pricks...
Its been utterly fantatstic to say the least!!!
As far as your act think [possibility. I do believe that what you do at the end of it all matters not what you intended. Mind over matter, ne!!!
And much honoured for the mention.
utterly flattered as I never thought...
:)
Smile came naturally.. it was simply because I got schmoozed (or whatever :P) by Phoenix and felt honoured and grateful for the same; but let this be a secret so that Madam keeps on labouring under the illusion that her commands work.
So now I am a schmoozer and oh.. wait...a NOT ANONYMOUS schmoozer. Well thanks!
[desperado]
Good good, keep Madam happy, and thou shalt be blessed
[chloe]
Havent counted, but count a few, and some of them are scary and maniacal
[dreamcatcher]
Well done
[lord varun]
Hail the lord. Welcome.
[pricky]
Well well, a smile is a smile and thats what Madam wants.
Thank you for all the honours and big words and generous speeches though.
Intent is a dubious domain, so to each his own. :)
[vik]
Ah! So you did get lucky ;)
Keep smiling
[vibhav]
You're welcome!
Aww thanks...*blushes*
I suppose "Conventionality is not morality; self-righteousness is not religion" should suffice, referencing your second piece.
CONG-RATS !
KEEP BLURTING! WE ALL ARE ALL EARS!
And what would your intent be??
thankoo hainjee aapko very much wala :)
shall do ur tag ma'm and shall keep smiling ma'm
*does a smart salute and departs*
[akshay]
;-)
[johney]
Brevity counts, and the way you put it is quotably marvellous.
Thanks!
[oracle]
:)
Welcome here, and yeah, I'm not stopping soon.
[pricky]
Well, I'm a weird one, and often I find myself caught favourably in the whims of the dubious domain of intent. I often forgive for things not done if they were intended to, and I never give more than half the credit for things, even if good, done half-heartedly. Of course this doesn't work universally, and very often in life the right unsaid and the undone hurts more by its absence than the wrongs done or said. So my take, and judgement is subjectively born between the two philosophies.
[arpana]
That's like a good girl.
Congrats on the Schmooze! From a fellow Schmoozer :)
Came here from mnowluck's fav bloggers list. Will be regular here from today onwards :)
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