It it said that there are five stages of grief: Denial, Anger, Bargaining/Desperation, Depression/Passiveness and Acceptance.
After having being stuck at the first stage for way too long, I've managed to zip past the rest in a relatively short span of a few days and have finally arrived at the point where I can ask my mind to stop working overtime and simply let go.
What's there is there. What's not, isn't. :)
Howmuchever you would have liked to wish for it.
This feels happier, lighter, peaceful. :)
But just for future reference, is there a shortcut to zip past to the last stage? It's kinda painful a journey....
4 comments:
alcohol = Best shortcut ever.
not just a shortcut, but a shortcut without a return ticket attached
tell me as soon as you find out..
Just something I read somewhere:
"The first time you get something or someone, realize and remember then itself that (s)he/it is already dead and gone. Then, you can enjoy (s)he/it the best."
Hope it helps.
Acceptance, you mean, of grief? No way! You are right, you must let go, of the problem that is.
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