Sunday, November 06, 2011

Your F**king life

Questions, frankly, never stop popping - they're as big or small as you make them in your head.
Joys or sorrows don't come by as often, but it's still upto us how big or small they become, and how much we make them mean.
Doubts, just like hurt or pain, feel like those omnipresent entities who stay at the background all the time, and rush to the surface at the slightest opening or invitation. No matter what we do, they'll keep coming every now and then like unwelcome guests, but we can decide to be as rude as we like and kick them out of our homes sooner than later. They'd return soon enough, either way, but at least they won't build cobwebs in the guest rooms.
Point is, no matter what we do, life keeps happening. Shit happens. Good things happen now and then. Ditto for ugly. Still, to a large extent it is upto us what we make of all this traffic. What we impart meaning to, what we absorb and store, what we hold on to, and what we allow to manipulate us.
Life happens all the time, we can't stop it, sure. But I think that's what is meant by saying "It is f**king your own life. Live it your way!"
:)

12 comments:

Divesh said...

"Live it your way" - isn't that phrase just a bunch of words that don't make sense at all? Won't you be living your life your own way even if you are not living it your own way.

Phoenix said...

Dont confuse me. Dont confuse yourself. Dont make random choices. Dont not make choices and blame the world for it.
Chill.
Live.

Anonymous said...

you shouldnt be too bitter about the crap life throws at you, it makes you much more resilient and humble. it makes you treasure your joys more, the doubts make your fall a little more bearable, gives the ability to rise back a little faster.
we pretty much keep everything in some form, those we brought upon ourselves and those that found their way on their own.
wouldn't it be better to keep it simpler still, to just say 'That's life.' and stop it at that sans the expletives and adjectives.

PS- ...... still hate shoulds ;)

Phoenix said...

Still hate shoulds :)
Missed you like hell. Even your "advice".

Also, everything is as simple as you please. So down with the adjectives, sure.
:)

Anonymous said...

i know the simplicity of your imagination ;) ....how simple things get when you think ;)

miss you too. for you I always have brimful of advice, the thing that stops me at times is not knowing where to begin.

Anonymous said...

Thats irnoy of life, you cant live it your way, coz at times you are blocking some other's way, and other do the same. I agree life is mixed bag of everything. its upto us what we take, what we make or what we let ourselves to break.Indeed life keeps moving.

Phoenix said...

[anon]
Totally simple it is. And I know you get it. Futile argument dont making.

Also, advice always welcome (really). Wherever, whatever, I have never been a big fan of thinking before speaking anyway :P :)

[adreamygal]
If only, darling, we really knew what our way is, or should be, or we want it to be.
Life knows better, because it is truly yours, even more than you are 'yours'.

Divesh said...

"because it is truly yours, even more than you are 'yours'."

kya fundoo dialogue hai :)

Phoenix said...

I know. I am awesome!

Cocktail Party said...

Interesting and confusing at the same time... me likey :)

Anonymous said...

Well, I am gonna hold on to this! :)

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