Friday, December 30, 2011

Unconditioned love

I am wondering, if it is fair or too much to be asked to be loved on all kinds of days.
Like when one is unwell, or having a bad hair day, or when a pair of jeans is making the ass look fat, or when one is cranky, or irrational or boring, or just not fun to be with. Like when you've had a bad day and are behaving unreasonably, not like your likeable self, is it justified to demand to be cared for the same. Or when you're depressed and looking like a mess, is it reasonable to want to be liked still.
Are we too demanding of our concepts of love and caring. Is it realistic or beyond-human?

Too bad if it isn't.

8 comments:

Prasad Narulkar said...

i feel...anyone who truly loves you...loves you beyond all these mentions...and if they are not with u at these times...they don really love you.
Actual "Love" is seamless and unconditional...else its just attraction.
(not that attraction is bad..it depends on what YOU are looking for at that pt)
:)

Divesh said...

The omnipresent question, and the omnipresent response. Why does the question still remain?

"Tere jahaan mein, aisa nahi ki pyaar na ho
Jahaan ummeed ho iski, wahaan nahi milta" - Nida Fazli

Ted said...

It is unrealistic ... but then so is the whole concept of love, isn't it ?

Anonymous said...

Love could be conditional .. in your case u wanted to get loved in all kinds of days !

as simple as that. when you expect, the other half expects too

dont be greedy

Anonymous said...

Yes it is! I wish for you that you can experience this love..

JustSo said...

love. pfft.

Raja said...

Can _you_ love someone, anyone, on all kinda days?

or, what about
Don't wait for love. Love
?

Or this
If they don't love _you_, they probably just _can't_ love

whatever! :-p

aditi said...

But then it applied both ways doesn't it...what if our bad days are also that person's bad days? Is it possible to love but still not care all the time?