What's wrong with all the men of this world is...

..err...well..nearly everything!

But not all of it is their fault you know. They didn't choose to be born males, and then, they had to suffer being brought up like "men", so by the time they are grown up...no, men take a long long time to actually grow up, if at all...so by the time they have been brought up to something confused and twisted and left on their own from thereon, they are almost there at being the confused meaning-well-but-doing-wrong jerks they are in so many situations. Yes, I know you are burning with a thousand arguments and curses to thrash me down, but if you are a guy, just for a change hold your cool and read this through. If you are a girl, you don't have to go on your spontaneous bullshitting and arguing with everything chirade just yet. The rest may proceed to the comments section or shoot me a mail right now.

But the others, I recommend read this post by Mukta once, and you'd know where I'm beginning from.

So, what's wrong with men is that their pre-conceived knowledge base is mostly junk, and hence most of what they do is, until a few of them learn to really grow up and have a belief of their own and act with some kind of rationality. But that, sadly, is a few of them.

Men are experts at doing a mistake and then coming to realise later what they did, over and over again. Sometimes they squeeze an apology somewhere, before or after the realisation, but most of the times they forget the whole exercise pretty soon. I don't know if this is better or worse than the women who often think so much both about things they impulsively did and never ever did that it turns out to be a mistake anyway and who are experts at issuing all the right apologies without meaning them.

And one of the saddest things about this world is that men and women don't yet know how to handle one another, although they can't do forever without each other. So they must stick together, but know so little about the Do's and Dont's with the other sex. And then they end up getting on each other's nerves fromtime to time. But life and this world, together with its imperfections, just goes on. All men are bastards and all women are bitches, and what separates one from another is both qualitative and quantitative, but they're both capable of variable capacities in different situations. Yet, the bottomline is at the end of the day they don't know how to handle each other, or any feelings for each other. They just somehow, keep going.

What's wrong with the men of today is however, that they don't even know how to handle themselves. They're confused by birth, full of doubts from the Preamble of their lives and fed on a notion that they still do know something and must know something and will/should/must get somewhere where they are meant to be (whatever that means) because they are men. They have a blind acceptance for the notion, but so many times take a lifetime to understand it. Nobody however ever taught them to handle emotions and failures and feelings of a high or a low. Sometimes they learn how to handle the after-booze-high and the-next-morning-low, but that's just about it.
You know what's better about the women of today in this regard. They can't handle themselves either, but they are way better at masking it and pretending they're ok.(Worse, they never learn to manage booze-highs and hangover-low, although they have a lot of practice at handling lows thanks to PMS) Afterall, they have the advantage of being brought up as women, so they have to prove themselves (to whoever?) in everything and compete with men uselessly and fruitlessly for everything and think and argue till they die, but never once do they have to accept defeat even if they lose. They have the convenience of many many standards of victory and defeat to choose from, whether or not their ego permits. So what's wrong with men is, that they are worse at even pulling off shams.

More on what's wrong with men is that it's so easy to tell them to "shut up and fuck off and just listen to me because you have no clue yourself", or to tell them "just what the hell do you think of yourself"! It's so goddamn easy. Try that with a woman sometime and you'd either be met with a snarl and a growl or a barricade of tears, both of which are very tricky to handle and survive.
What's wrong with men is that they wanna know what the whole world is thinking but somewhere while doing that they forget why they wanted to know it in the first place, or what do they themselves think about it. Women on the other hand want to know what the whole world is thinking so that they can waste some grey cells mulling over it and arguing about it with themselves, and eventually stick to whatever they started with because all the time wastage has convinced them that they were always right(so much for their ego) even if it was the worst of the alternatives available. So the problem with men, is generally of a small cache.

I could go on and on. But there's work I must do. And besides, I have to be considerate towards the patient few who have reached this far but wil now blow up anytime with their controlled emotions. Since what's wrong with men is "everything", I can obviously never capture it in full. So excuse me now and you can have your outbursts.

But before I end, there's one thing I forgot to say. What's wrong with al the men of this world is nearly everything, especially the fact that they pay any importance to women at all(anatomical i know...sad no/) and what's wrong with all the women of this world is that they will never ever stop pointing out mistakes in everything and everybody, but never accept their own!