No matter what and how much we do to fulfil the demands of the ones we love, it's never enough. No matter what you think how understanding and undemanding you're trying to be with the one you love, it's always a bit too less on your part.
Kitna bhi karo, kam pad hi jata hai! Hai na?
21 comments:
hehehe...that was funny....
and going to the depth...its true...
Great blog u own her...blogrolling u...:)
the key babes, is not to keep count of how much you've given. Whenm you give - give it and let go of any expectation of emotions that "ought" to be returned to you.
very funny but very true..
emotional barter IS the most primitive, dangerous and yet most oft used way of exchange..hmph
[jeya anand]
hi, thanks.
Yes it's true. Nice blog yours, too.
[arpz]
Exactly mein theory..no accounting in love :)
But still, wouldnt like to fall short of what I want to do.
[pooja]
In the blood of Homo Sapiens I guess! :~|
truely true!!
hehe funny and completely true!
:) True...
But this is only because we love enough to want to see the person completely satisfied. We give them the right to demand...gladly. It's you, not the one you love who has the weakness.
:)
True indeed
And you;re absolutely Prude. It IS the beautiful part about caring for someone when we want to give them everything, and even that is not enough. It's not a weakness or fault, and in no case of the one loved...it's just the "Expect everything from urself, nothing from others" diktat fallout
pretty funny...:)
kya kare..expectations are high..
har waqt...har koi khud se jada doosro se expect karta hai..amy b thats the reason..its more like horse ride..however more u run..the person sitting above never feels enough..
i wanted to be alone for some time
you stood by my side the whole time
i wanted a tulip of the morning hue
you gave me roses with the morning mist
'you look unhappy, why'
you ask with concern
i stay quiet
for i expect you to know
i sulk often and get impatient
you complain and lay the blame on me
i cry at my adamance
for i expect you to know
PS- why is writing a few good lines so difficult??
hmm... thats one way of looking at it :)
[dream catcher]
giver n taker estimates of the same thing never match :) It's like when u have to wait alone for someone for ten minutes, they seem loonggg, the person seems unpunctual and uncaring etc etc
When u r ten minutes late, u r thankful to urself it's "just ten minutes" and hence no big deal
[catalyst]
Very very nice lines. Ought to pluck a print of the last eight lines n post on my desk!
True, too.
But tell me one thing, this "expecting you to know" thing..is it totally wrong and unjustified? perhaps it isnt fair, but not everything can be (should be?) said in as many words, and with some people u expect ur silence to be understood..sometimes the one "how are u or anything wrong" is not enough provocation to answer what really is wrong, no matter how much u want to share it...smtimes u want to be cajoled and comforted, ur silence to be understood and slowly elicited as words. But i guess it is too much to want?
Cant decide either, how much do i do when the situation is reverse...
And the worse bit, it hurts!
[ff]
what's the other?
smtimes u want to be cajoled and comforted, ur silence to be understood and slowly elicited as words. But i guess it is too much to want?
exactly something close to my heart, its not too much to want. This is the difference between a stranger and some one really close to you, that you do care for things unsaid. This is why people enjoy relationship, you are pampered, you are cared without asking for it. Sometimes we even get difficult with others we love to draw out a pleasure from our whims and tantrums being indulged. That’s the glue which holds things, if its not there you are just carrying on things as a formality to console yourself that you are capable of being in a relationship, friendship or otherwise. Doing things mechanically- you ask and I give is not what emotions and caring are about. We all have desire to be that pampered kid, whose every need is being taken care of by doting parents without saying anything, and even after all the care he cries at the smallest of overlooking on the mother’ part, parents never complain, rather they enjoy fulfilling the demands. The dynamics changes as you grow up, but if you really care for someone you don’t hesitate to put in that extra effort for finding out what really is desired. Sometimes you overlook, but now if the other person also really understands you, he overlooks these oversights from time to time. forgiven and forgotten, this is how things work for a truly ideal case.
There is nothing hideous like the word compromise, if you don’t get pleasure in bending a little, to go that extra mile…………the person is most likely than not is a compromise :D
PS- these are entirely my views, a lot is offcourse unsaid, because reality is always different from what you want it to be :)
Yup and rightly so...being self-satisfied in love is the last thing you need. Part of love is like..."alright, let's see what else can I do for her/him", rather than, "now what more am I expected to do?" All for personal good.
the cartoon is funny eh!
Hehe, cute cartoon. And I understand what you said there, perfectly. It's quite true. Overlove is as bad as underlove.
[catalyst]
I wish, seriously wish, that more people understood and shared your views. I'm so touched by your words I want to meet you even more. If everybody understood it, everybody could be so much happier and perfect-er.
thank you.
[vibhav]
well, i hope selflessness is that easy.
[romi]
Ahh! Look who's here. After all this time! How have u been?
[akshay]
Yeyy.akshay understands my post! :P
Jokes apart,excess of everything is bad, and so it too little of wats necessary
I know it's been so long. I am great and hope I'd visit regularly after being lost for so long in the crowd.
:D
you sure know how to elicit a smile :)
people know these things, and others learn with time, have a little more faith in man-kind ;) Its only that accepting this exposes their vulnerability and weakness, and the subconscious prevents them from bending, thus making them prone to hurt when their care is not reciprocated
Like I said, it's all for personal good. And if instead of "I love you", the three words to say were "You are loved", things would be very different, and this post too! It would change the degree of involvement of the "I" and the "you".
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