Okay, enough of being sad and crying over all that's lost. To hell with it, you know. Atleast I have something. And I'm good, so I can live with it. Enough of staying depressed. Let's get on with it, let's do something.
One important lesson though, in life, if you believe, someone, some people, anyone is going to be with you and there for you always, you are kidding. It's totally false. If someone was there for you at some point of time, congratulations, you are lucky, because that someone just coincidentally happened to be there at that time and coincidentally understood it all and happened to be a nice person at heart so stood by you. If you're counting on such coincidences all the time, you're stupid. If you think when people sing "I'd be there for you..." they mean it, wake up.
Now all of you who wanna fight and debate with me on this, stop it. If you don't, okay, it means you wanna learn it the harder way rather than accepting it when I say it which is the easier way. Fine by me, good luck. :)
On happier note, now that exams are over and a lot of work is due, after the dussehra weekend, it wd get dead hectic again. Wow! :P
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What now...something fun?
Okay, this is one tag I think is really interesting to do. Maybe because it tells you how greedy you really are, inspite of howmuchever of a saint you think you are! It's called "Thoda aur chalega".
The rules are simple. You got to write five things that you do have and are quite fond of/proud of because they really are good/feel-good (at least in your own perspective). These things can be anything...qualities, people, pets, clothes, goodies etc. Then you have to add one adjective to each, indicating what else you'd wish (dream, fantasise etc.) these things to also have. Like the extra free chocolate topping on a five scoop hot chocolate fudge with nuts, chocolate sauce, raisins etc.
An example could be: My super cool super fast car....I wish I had a red-coloured super cool super fast car.
Here's my greed-list:
1. A sensible head....I wish I had a
2. The world's best boyfriend....I wish I had a
3. Uncanny knack of pulling some people's leg and getting the better of them with sarcasm/scolding....I wish I had an
4. This blog that I love and that has given me a whole lot of lovely people and perspectives....I wish this blog that I love and that has given me a whole lot of lovely people and perspectives was
5. Parents who are very loving and supportive....parents who are very loving and supportive who were
Okay your turn now....I pass this on too:
Shantanu
Akshay
Desperado
Doc
Vikram
Tapasya
Arpz
and whoever wants to do it :P
11 comments:
"If you think when people sing "I'd be there for you..." they mean it, wake up."
Could'nt have put it in better words.I learnt the hard way though ;)
hey thanx for the tag!!! :-) Now I have to do a lot of thinking.... what do I like....hmmmm tough question! anyways would do the thinking part and posting part of it tomorrow! ;-)
Well the first part of your post is true... very true (in bond... james bond accent!). I learnt it the hard way also, some people I thought would be there with me my entire life but that is not true, some friends whom I studied for 13 years in school change suddenly when they are into a new relationship, or the worst is their girl / boy doesn't like u, well often I think that am I here to take testimonials, or our relationship of 13 years needed a testimonial from somebody whom I barely know.
Anyways these things doesn't matter to me now....try spendinga lot of time on your own... and if anybody wants to join you he / she is always welcome, never be Dependant on anybody, for any movie for any weekend, for any work.... that is why I started running :-P
sorry again "bol India bol" thing happened!
Shantanu
Yes so the best thing is go for people who don't say "I'd be there for u" like dogs, cats and mute people. The first two would surely be there for u :)
Hmmm....tag...oh yeah, I'll do it!
Thanks for the luck...and i hope i never learn the lesson :)....some do mean it ;)...okie okie no fighting :P
Tough tag for me
well.. if it was for the easier way, people would have understood already .. so people don't really like the easier ways .. u knw ..
but on a gud note its gud that u have finally popped up off the 'being sad' mode ..
keep gud
cheers
//One important lesson though, in life, if you believe, someone, some people, anyone is going to be with you and there for you always, you are kidding. It's totally false//
Never agreed more on anything before!
Someone I know always says "People are like travellers. They come and go as when their destinations arive"
You are always your own companion..in sorrow in grief..and sometimes happiness too:)
BTW, am doing your tag (eventhough u dint tag me) coz its been ages that anyone in blogsphere tagged me:P
completely agree, and maybe the cynicsm in me tells me that the person stood by you, because he/she had no other go at that point of time.
And yeah, shall do the tag dearie :)
Lovely post! I loved the first part of the post like anything! And I agree completely dear.
Will take up the tag soon...it seems very very interesting :)
[the fake engineer]
Guess everyone hates learning easily anyway. Good for you though, in the long run:)
Take care!
[shantanu]
Oh I love your long comments, and yahan incoming free hai, jitna marzi bol india ;)
Thanks for all those nice sounding words too. Good for you :)
I have never been dependent on anyone for work, for daily hanging around or stuff. Pretty much do my things my way. But sometimes, just sometimes i wish i did and had someone 24*7 around. Grass is always greener on the other side. I love my independence, but sometimes that starts translating into loneliness. Khair, it's over now, for now :)
[akshay]
I'm sure in another year you'd manage to brainwash me into keeping a pet or two :P
[desperado]
Tough-wuff kuch nahi hota. Karo matlab karo :D
[anuj]
Dont blame people. I wdnt have, if i were in their place.
And yes i am gooooooood. ;)
[rays of sun]
Hey dids, didnt know u still liked blogosphere at all, or wd have tagged u first...Life is good, isnt it? :D
[arpz]
Cynics rock. Just that two cynics dont make an optimist. Pessimist neither. Only a lot of confusion. :P
Cheers
[taps]
Lo ji, everyone agrees. i thought fight shight hogi :P
Chalo ji tag karo
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